A family gathering can produce several kinds of saved material: answers people chose to share, entries kept for later, and suggestions generated by coaching. The controls for them do different jobs.
Start with the actual sources
Coaching can use gathering answers and derived arc context. With the Librarian enabled on Plus or Culture, saved family preferences can also inform coaching. Raw gathering transcripts and shared stories have separate coaching exclusions.
Review before keeping
Review the included answers when keeping a recording. Edit or remove anything you do not want filed. A Librarian suggestion is a proposal until someone confirms it.
Clearing messages is not erasing personalization
Clearing coaching messages removes generated message history. It leaves your family’s Record and the saved sources that can inform future coaching in place.
The canonical answers and current controls
Read What Haklo keeps, and what it clears for the maintained answers about message access, coaching sources, and the exact scope of clearing. The help page is the source used by our support assistant.